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小幸子以前在報紙和網上專欄上刊登過的作品，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcq0ehHiUTt
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「潮語」是指潮流用語，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡn28lLiWjry
每個年代都會有不同特色的潮語。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUaIkwBwKy0
而這年代具代表性的潮語莫過於「屈機」﹑「十卜」等，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKq8lmJYvRB
由網絡衍生出來，夾雜一點「火星文」味道的潮語。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGrS6LE40eo
這些帶點玩樂性質的潮語卻在近年開始變質，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKts0YDiNdL
漸漸出現一堆帶有諷刺性及侮辱性的潮語，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiiugvP1vjz
例如「港女」﹑「剩女」﹑「宅男」﹑「90後」等等。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1Joa4pYKUe
這些原本語調中性的名詞，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡafcxgUdIMN
為什麼後來會變成一種負面的標籤呢？
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「港女」換言之是香港女性，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwL0rerfDxG
而「90後」即是1990年後出生的人，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaOT7e3E2z5
明明只是一個中立的簡稱。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmGsMrP18kn
但現今世代的「港女」卻泛指有公主病﹑拜金的女生，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5tDkar8bUM
而「90後」就毫無理由地等同於313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNbxIBkNJan
工作不認真﹑沒責任心的一群，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡANjN0ALeC2
其實我每次聽到都覺得匪夷所思，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOkHz8ILLGI
即若果我是出生於1990年之後的香港女性居民，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUOQA0c9SIy
所以我一出世，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaC5vzhNekD
不，未出世就已注定313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuyq9Czshsd
是有公主病﹑拜金﹑工作不認真﹑沒責任心的人？313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUrgohidHWr
那麼世上人人都是風水師，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9PL6eTptI4
人人都懂得用生辰八字來睇相了。
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聽說是這些族群的大多數有這些特徵，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4NJbd8YNvd
所以就用以統稱。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRUhYqyCRIE
我很好奇，發起這些統稱的人，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtT1DqfoRZW
是否已經見過所有香港女子，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4WzAz4ydbm
或者所有出生於90年代後的人？313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6zGjVgIJWg
所謂大多數，即最少是多於一半。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxyX05G26Aq
而性格特質這種東西，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsbmNvUxc9H
是要相處過才會見識到。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVdWHy7IXw4
所謂見識，不只是見過，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCcmdSDQxsM
還要認識和體會。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHmw2XmOadz
我總不相信有人一生認識過100萬個香港女生。
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然而就因為其輕率的一聲「港女」，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡswLu6sSckT
及後所有香港女性都像被世人用「家嫂」的眼光去審視：313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnqX5tDKiXP
夏天穿背心短褲？港女。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡva56yaHGd5
要男朋友買了超過一千蚊的禮物？港女。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPBDZ0MVBfp
約會遲到？港女。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjAvb0Zoc13
同樣地，呻一呻辛苦，工作不認真，任性叛逆，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJgQEYQ1Z94
你就是沒責任心，自私易放棄的90後。
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試問一下，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwlS9YcFmAj
社會上除了老闆，誰上班是不辛苦？313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOlvGzeofoh
不幸遇上魔頭上司，簡直是痛苦。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡL66u1zdRcP
呻一呻有何稀奇？313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4AA2odC0Zk
上世代的人從來沒呻過？我聽過創自1976年的「半斤八兩」，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZyOGzlqpI5
可憐一班「90後」尚未出世呢。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmHgYME1Kma
工作不認真？313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmb7IEzWULM
我相信不少在職人士一定見識過313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrccySphdXt
只說不做﹑恃老賣老的「老屎忽」。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡY42B3DqnZn
世上當真只有90年後出生的人先會呻？313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡro2zbtHhnR
先會推卸責任？313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡB7x1yvPxAA
叛逆任性，亦真的只出現在「90後」身上嗎?313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuEwhTIiu4E
撫心自問，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAhDWgXYiGM
世界上又是不是只有香港女性才會約會遲到，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAcCGAoUkiP
收超過一千蚊的禮物？
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既是如此，為什麼獨獨只有這些族群才會被惡意標籤？313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHvHwe165cc
所有所謂特徵，明明會出現在不同族群和年代的人身上，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8wOdK7UCgg
但現在獨獨只有這一群會被規範會被矯枉過正，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIhX1eX6cGl
再也不敢隨便呻隨便收禮物，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAB1exr4ejo
只因他們已經被標籤。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4csRVwP4eg
就像被一條充滿荊棘的橡皮圈緊緊绑著，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2VeqpeCbqn
又像在走一條窄如獨木橋又難行的石春路，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBoW7LN8Rxh
就怕稍稍走錯一步都會被世人指點﹑唾罵。 313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsw4AYEUVRN
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被標籤的族群313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUPZOAxwuLm
如今只能因大眾的誤解而生活在峡窄的規範中。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡb2pI7YwcnC
然而，以我所知，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaLCbUlkc3L
現今90後或香港出世的女性都不是複製人，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmEpAg6yPSL
所以每個人都還是獨立的個體，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcEyxSMAQsY
行為﹑性格﹑特色都獨一無二，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeIV14QJ3t7
不至於所有／大多數這些族群的人313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡETzT2pj18s
就一定／必然會出現這些特徵。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBD6pxFTI1V
事實上，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7fmK9KjSw9
是否「90前」﹑「美女」（美國女性）﹑「中女」（中國女性）313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5En2MmvFcL
真的從來沒有出現過被標籤族群所做的行為呢？
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其實，峽窄的生活方式，是源於膚淺的眼光。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmFN0YVwJOQ
我真心希望這些讓人心生壓力的標籤效應以後能夠慢慢淡化，313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ12L1BgYBHo
希望大家能客觀﹑獨立的看待每一個人。313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsWdQYkljdO
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小幸子Yukiko313Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzzdi8V2yGr
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