今天久違的去女僕店~34Please respect copyright.PENANAWSOXralesi
然而卻發生了讓我很驚訝的事情,34Please respect copyright.PENANAqFxSxf8a66
以至於我今天臨時改題目。34Please respect copyright.PENANAMejjYI1qkP
雖然這個題目看起來很籠統,34Please respect copyright.PENANAawoWVcbbAu
但我應該真的是為了這件事情才這樣命題,34Please respect copyright.PENANArBqM7ylrgi
之後不會有類似的題目了(怕觸景傷情)。
總之,我遇到疑似女僕被性騷擾的情況,34Please respect copyright.PENANAF9zcSsFvsv
而且還是Staff直接對女僕動手...34Please respect copyright.PENANALMHYNPIbTi
第一次是當著我的面前,34Please respect copyright.PENANAdL2SsUAobj
有點像是要懲罰女僕而做的動作,34Please respect copyright.PENANA5IEGoXMeDP
但是我覺得不是每個人都能接受...34Please respect copyright.PENANAL26bEOLmld
而且那個動作力道不好其實對被害者也會有危險...34Please respect copyright.PENANATETLFTfXeT
我其實沒有辦法判斷女僕當下是什麼心情,34Please respect copyright.PENANAxzd9uvg5Mt
也聽說過受害者很多在第一時間是愣住,34Please respect copyright.PENANAXmMKq7ERtQ
因為發生得太快了,34Please respect copyright.PENANAiN6IqGkU6T
根本還反應不過來...
後來又發生了另一個身體接觸的性騷擾動作,34Please respect copyright.PENANAjXJqzf1iCk
我其實很確信我的預感沒錯...34Please respect copyright.PENANAKIvNU4iCIf
讓我傷心的是,34Please respect copyright.PENANA4gpx0FJcyp
當下只有我跟我姊這組女客人,34Please respect copyright.PENANAIGjpfZYrxW
其他都是男客人。34Please respect copyright.PENANARtGn23EXe3
如果有女客人都敢當著面的話,34Please respect copyright.PENANAkYvSbPGRcv
那都是男客人的情況下有沒有可能變本加厲呢...
另外似乎也有男客人有動作,34Please respect copyright.PENANADpZEPUPW1I
而女僕好像是尷尬地笑笑...34Please respect copyright.PENANA0Y0L7qkJ0p
因為是背對著我的動作,34Please respect copyright.PENANAiV7nxHA4pq
所以我不確定做了什麼動作...
我一直覺得職業歸職業,34Please respect copyright.PENANAsp5XlWLHPA
說到賣藝不賣身可能有點嚴重,34Please respect copyright.PENANAZgDiUshuRB
但我覺得即使是女僕,34Please respect copyright.PENANACDbVuVBau3
以服務主人為名義,34Please respect copyright.PENANA8Og2VkyGKH
他們也不應該受到任何的性騷擾或不公平的對待。34Please respect copyright.PENANAG6wAxSChY6
男僕或者稱執事也是一樣該獲得尊重。
我也不能接受什麼:34Please respect copyright.PENANAAPfrRzjmnC
這就只是打情罵俏呀~34Please respect copyright.PENANADYiS00vRL6
「這樣很可愛」34Please respect copyright.PENANANosd2SC9q5
之類的...34Please respect copyright.PENANAAx4i8MXmfH
因為反過來如果是男生(尤其是陽剛型的)被這樣對待,34Please respect copyright.PENANAGQV2Kavrhe
相信不會有人說很可愛,34Please respect copyright.PENANAiIE9heQlg9
男生直接卯別人一拳也不為過...
可是發生的當下我卻無法做任何事情...34Please respect copyright.PENANAgpwbDvUlEy
因為每個小動作都是一眨眼的時間,34Please respect copyright.PENANAopGxK3gb78
第二次跟我離的距離比較遠...34Please respect copyright.PENANAmabGKJNAUM
第一次則是在我面前(女僕來桌邊服務時),
我到現在還是有罪惡感...34Please respect copyright.PENANAqOh2TAF3VZ
身為女性,且一直專注兩性關係,34Please respect copyright.PENANA6jE5TkctY0
拒吃台灣的麥當勞...34Please respect copyright.PENANAQTHqmFRKzB
可是發生問題的當下,34Please respect copyright.PENANASJ6ewqQBC6
卻什麼也不能做...
我事後把事情跟我二姊說,34Please respect copyright.PENANAW3h94V9643
她說心情有被我影響...34Please respect copyright.PENANA6ttOB6YdO8
然而我跟她解釋,34Please respect copyright.PENANAXyO5vj6W8z
我還是會去光顧~34Please respect copyright.PENANAjJWGSoHvzA
因為說真的發生這種事情,34Please respect copyright.PENANAAjZRyLCbvZ
我如果出手,34Please respect copyright.PENANAIVTYO1uXFw
場面會很尷尬,34Please respect copyright.PENANAQIE5X7qZU9
也許會影響到當事人的仕途...34Please respect copyright.PENANAykOWQalyji
終究我只能安慰自己:34Please respect copyright.PENANALna52PzeqM
可能只有當事人自己反應或反抗了...34Please respect copyright.PENANAsnRtsi8UXI
所以雖然為了這件事情不太愉快,34Please respect copyright.PENANAhbs4jnGvB3
但是把事情跟二姊說,34Please respect copyright.PENANAFzLVtW36vE
也只是為了讓我心情緩和不要憋在心裡。
由於以自我的角度想這件事情真的太痛苦了,34Please respect copyright.PENANAgYD3ZN1caa
因此我想藉著這個題目來分析,34Please respect copyright.PENANAP1BOaqKARO
如果是學長的話,34Please respect copyright.PENANANJpAnhdbbV
他會怎麼做呢?34Please respect copyright.PENANA3LrzHU6TTF
不過,用杜若可能的個性來分析是沒意義的,34Please respect copyright.PENANAq3cTR7XTCe
這只是用來轉換性別或者用他者來分析讓後果承擔沒那麼直接而已。
學長很會打圓場,34Please respect copyright.PENANA0qg245l3Qx
我想第一種可能的做法是:34Please respect copyright.PENANAVLOQhi6kII
學長可能會說:34Please respect copyright.PENANADwsk9Mwnzs
「哇~小姐被懲罰了~好可憐喔~她已經很努力了,你下次別這樣對她好不好呢?」34Please respect copyright.PENANA4FgumBgFU5
一方面是讓加害者知道,34Please respect copyright.PENANATAkaZotH8Q
有人注意到他不洽當的舉動,34Please respect copyright.PENANA7kVXCGgzfb
一方面也是警告或提醒加害者不應該有下次。34Please respect copyright.PENANAu6oZEQ7BVY(有下次就把你送去性平會)34Please respect copyright.PENANAlhVtkImOZS
第二種可能的做法是,34Please respect copyright.PENANAAfBdLpubP4
事情發生後,34Please respect copyright.PENANAb5vejciJtG
等Staff走遠,34Please respect copyright.PENANAHlpTjyrW8p
學長會問女僕:34Please respect copyright.PENANAjfEMIPH9jI
「哈囉~妳還好嗎?妳剛剛有沒有覺得哪裡不舒服?我覺得剛剛那個人的動作不是很妥當,34Please respect copyright.PENANAxfUfd4hTHy
怕他傷到妳了~」34Please respect copyright.PENANAarHDG4Szt1
在當下硬跟著對方說教,有些人(未必是男性)可能會惱羞成怒。34Please respect copyright.PENANAKoO40RCyUI
但至少在事後關心一下女僕的狀況,34Please respect copyright.PENANA6pimEvcq4p
也是讓女僕意識到,34Please respect copyright.PENANAwv76lZHVJe
剛剛那個不是巧合、也不是什麼開玩笑,34Please respect copyright.PENANARL6EH0UHWm
是真的不妥當的行為,進而能夠好好的處理情緒或者有下次的應對方式。
很多時候發生事情,受害者反而會先檢討自己...34Please respect copyright.PENANAyWW4hu6b0q
甚至會不斷麻痺自己:其實那沒什麼、我沒有受傷。34Please respect copyright.PENANATEie8MF9cv
希望這時有人能夠開導他、接住他,34Please respect copyright.PENANAys2McOMfBg
因為事後自己查覺到的傷是最痛的...
最後一種,34Please respect copyright.PENANACAmLSb2mKw
其實跟第二種的差別就是:34Please respect copyright.PENANAnKBT4XAdYP
改用寫的。34Please respect copyright.PENANA8WdquvmU9U
如果用說的,不免隔牆有耳,34Please respect copyright.PENANAPsrVT82gqu
用寫的話,34Please respect copyright.PENANAA4jjlExCWw
不管是用手機打字或者用筆寫在紙上,34Please respect copyright.PENANA4ho2YHjvvl
當事人可能會直接用點頭或搖頭反應,34Please respect copyright.PENANAJixOH2HPK7
也可能小聲說話(悄悄話),34Please respect copyright.PENANA5lNNv6AZ8b
當然也可能微笑置之不理。34Please respect copyright.PENANAiGblmOgBOD
不見得會願意用寫的回應(要說/寫的話太多...)34Please respect copyright.PENANAqxFjbeD4I0
總之,34Please respect copyright.PENANAmo1lvAtmSO
客人也會心理不安,34Please respect copyright.PENANAIN1kHHr1mX
這跟性別無關,任何性別都有可能被性騷擾。34Please respect copyright.PENANAKqQKCKmUgR
如果Staff有這種小動作,34Please respect copyright.PENANAmbSYOEPNA1
那客人擔心自己也有可能被小動作,34Please respect copyright.PENANAbGvpKGC4hi
這不為過吧...(你說Staff沒小動作還會擔心的,可能才叫做被害妄想症)34Please respect copyright.PENANAmUrpZSpeEl
所以把這樣的擔憂反應給女僕,34Please respect copyright.PENANAB6KgxnXTpk
也許還能將這樣的壓力施加給那個Staff...34Please respect copyright.PENANAwL1ljVDXDN
畢竟不管哪種性質的店,34Please respect copyright.PENANAo73vFB7lid
我相信本質都不會是讓客人感覺不舒服。
雖然知道這些分析對於加害者來說都是屁...34Please respect copyright.PENANAKHttybFvaO
(會犯的人就是會犯)34Please respect copyright.PENANAx9DfFrv8br
然而當英雄都需要勇氣的,34Please respect copyright.PENANAffyeOXEAbE
比起只是在心裡想,34Please respect copyright.PENANAoMJFv22KMC
也許有那麼一天,34Please respect copyright.PENANA3Q1uNdUWTo
能夠成為出面英雄(還是叫出手英雄)~34Please respect copyright.PENANAq2aCc7q4Ya
也希望大家都不會遇到這些不舒服的事情~
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