今天久違的去女僕店~12Please respect copyright.PENANAu8oobRpx0b
然而卻發生了讓我很驚訝的事情,12Please respect copyright.PENANActhMPqpvmK
以至於我今天臨時改題目。12Please respect copyright.PENANAcqGZ3M7sb6
雖然這個題目看起來很籠統,12Please respect copyright.PENANAsavtAKXSBa
但我應該真的是為了這件事情才這樣命題,12Please respect copyright.PENANA6nrv5Ih1Gz
之後不會有類似的題目了(怕觸景傷情)。
總之,我遇到疑似女僕被性騷擾的情況,12Please respect copyright.PENANA7PYrWyfph2
而且還是Staff直接對女僕動手...12Please respect copyright.PENANAG9OOPHW50p
第一次是當著我的面前,12Please respect copyright.PENANAIew6kk4ykw
有點像是要懲罰女僕而做的動作,12Please respect copyright.PENANA5NqMUp6Zao
但是我覺得不是每個人都能接受...12Please respect copyright.PENANAe1qQ4zhFnl
而且那個動作力道不好其實對被害者也會有危險...12Please respect copyright.PENANA7BkNmUKXfc
我其實沒有辦法判斷女僕當下是什麼心情,12Please respect copyright.PENANAnha9QTwR5q
也聽說過受害者很多在第一時間是愣住,12Please respect copyright.PENANACKdP1KqboC
因為發生得太快了,12Please respect copyright.PENANAkLuaIaBlUS
根本還反應不過來...
後來又發生了另一個身體接觸的性騷擾動作,12Please respect copyright.PENANAbNtJ5agAyb
我其實很確信我的預感沒錯...12Please respect copyright.PENANAbmCS2UXJzc
讓我傷心的是,12Please respect copyright.PENANAtWvmOgaisT
當下只有我跟我姊這組女客人,12Please respect copyright.PENANA8pveLoxBGg
其他都是男客人。12Please respect copyright.PENANAV6IzsAty5S
如果有女客人都敢當著面的話,12Please respect copyright.PENANA8SftFV5QZz
那都是男客人的情況下有沒有可能變本加厲呢...
另外似乎也有男客人有動作,12Please respect copyright.PENANAxRASqcYclt
而女僕好像是尷尬地笑笑...12Please respect copyright.PENANAAtBnV3YJNv
因為是背對著我的動作,12Please respect copyright.PENANAHtUsfeWugc
所以我不確定做了什麼動作...
我一直覺得職業歸職業,12Please respect copyright.PENANAcZVfZJE0F0
說到賣藝不賣身可能有點嚴重,12Please respect copyright.PENANAV9YvgChpTf
但我覺得即使是女僕,12Please respect copyright.PENANAP5BaH0PikE
以服務主人為名義,12Please respect copyright.PENANATDmU3Wvhb4
他們也不應該受到任何的性騷擾或不公平的對待。12Please respect copyright.PENANAbjKM5wFpVI
男僕或者稱執事也是一樣該獲得尊重。
我也不能接受什麼:12Please respect copyright.PENANAbMaF3WMhOr
這就只是打情罵俏呀~12Please respect copyright.PENANAwnLgbul1d5
「這樣很可愛」12Please respect copyright.PENANAYoShMySwT8
之類的...12Please respect copyright.PENANAUjsb9woOwN
因為反過來如果是男生(尤其是陽剛型的)被這樣對待,12Please respect copyright.PENANAQOobqVBe5B
相信不會有人說很可愛,12Please respect copyright.PENANAArPfN0CfPW
男生直接卯別人一拳也不為過...
可是發生的當下我卻無法做任何事情...12Please respect copyright.PENANAdi3PjVPYDI
因為每個小動作都是一眨眼的時間,12Please respect copyright.PENANAzPJLfVLris
第二次跟我離的距離比較遠...12Please respect copyright.PENANA3mhVLhZxkP
第一次則是在我面前(女僕來桌邊服務時),
我到現在還是有罪惡感...12Please respect copyright.PENANANFXqkLovdZ
身為女性,且一直專注兩性關係,12Please respect copyright.PENANAHERJIDTkY7
拒吃台灣的麥當勞...12Please respect copyright.PENANAC2tdFye281
可是發生問題的當下,12Please respect copyright.PENANAwAWk0AO8k8
卻什麼也不能做...
我事後把事情跟我二姊說,12Please respect copyright.PENANAeNPnU6oTjH
她說心情有被我影響...12Please respect copyright.PENANAVzD6T6FvC6
然而我跟她解釋,12Please respect copyright.PENANA70ArcBMceH
我還是會去光顧~12Please respect copyright.PENANAZ8yGBgJ9GH
因為說真的發生這種事情,12Please respect copyright.PENANAOvD9oaa872
我如果出手,12Please respect copyright.PENANAilYi8qaaCQ
場面會很尷尬,12Please respect copyright.PENANAUiqgCR66HM
也許會影響到當事人的仕途...12Please respect copyright.PENANAk6jylSjE9i
終究我只能安慰自己:12Please respect copyright.PENANAVQOBPuXvys
可能只有當事人自己反應或反抗了...12Please respect copyright.PENANAh5oReUrOQ7
所以雖然為了這件事情不太愉快,12Please respect copyright.PENANAxvwMEVDgew
但是把事情跟二姊說,12Please respect copyright.PENANAhkRXcc6CZ4
也只是為了讓我心情緩和不要憋在心裡。
由於以自我的角度想這件事情真的太痛苦了,12Please respect copyright.PENANAPhKf6hth8r
因此我想藉著這個題目來分析,12Please respect copyright.PENANAuxiTF353qJ
如果是學長的話,12Please respect copyright.PENANA7a5xTSJxm7
他會怎麼做呢?12Please respect copyright.PENANAlQdauUrIsL
不過,用杜若可能的個性來分析是沒意義的,12Please respect copyright.PENANAGy9YUGnRCu
這只是用來轉換性別或者用他者來分析讓後果承擔沒那麼直接而已。
學長很會打圓場,12Please respect copyright.PENANAeUx5ovPhpA
我想第一種可能的做法是:12Please respect copyright.PENANAvUlG0OpDHG
學長可能會說:12Please respect copyright.PENANAkcj0GRRbpX
「哇~小姐被懲罰了~好可憐喔~她已經很努力了,你下次別這樣對她好不好呢?」12Please respect copyright.PENANA9qhR3zwKAh
一方面是讓加害者知道,12Please respect copyright.PENANA2Vx2JKz13D
有人注意到他不洽當的舉動,12Please respect copyright.PENANA9cDQbvMqyN
一方面也是警告或提醒加害者不應該有下次。12Please respect copyright.PENANAVEXo2myCzw(有下次就把你送去性平會)12Please respect copyright.PENANAa1txJaZMvj
第二種可能的做法是,12Please respect copyright.PENANAYzyG94OsYh
事情發生後,12Please respect copyright.PENANAkq8x6OUjhR
等Staff走遠,12Please respect copyright.PENANAgNW8uBfT4z
學長會問女僕:12Please respect copyright.PENANAnnuxCQC0z1
「哈囉~妳還好嗎?妳剛剛有沒有覺得哪裡不舒服?我覺得剛剛那個人的動作不是很妥當,12Please respect copyright.PENANAUmrp1Qo8gZ
怕他傷到妳了~」12Please respect copyright.PENANAchRfbHP6GV
在當下硬跟著對方說教,有些人(未必是男性)可能會惱羞成怒。12Please respect copyright.PENANAlnIY3mDHlX
但至少在事後關心一下女僕的狀況,12Please respect copyright.PENANAlWO6d2PYYr
也是讓女僕意識到,12Please respect copyright.PENANAbvfdNaXjzo
剛剛那個不是巧合、也不是什麼開玩笑,12Please respect copyright.PENANAS8abmle7zb
是真的不妥當的行為,進而能夠好好的處理情緒或者有下次的應對方式。
很多時候發生事情,受害者反而會先檢討自己...12Please respect copyright.PENANAUGiKd3WUmB
甚至會不斷麻痺自己:其實那沒什麼、我沒有受傷。12Please respect copyright.PENANABsfBZdsk4R
希望這時有人能夠開導他、接住他,12Please respect copyright.PENANAP7qg31UbJi
因為事後自己查覺到的傷是最痛的...
最後一種,12Please respect copyright.PENANAfpHNUaOyjg
其實跟第二種的差別就是:12Please respect copyright.PENANArNhyiQ2SMO
改用寫的。12Please respect copyright.PENANAiCgFGOTWOF
如果用說的,不免隔牆有耳,12Please respect copyright.PENANAIgnWGR7rlR
用寫的話,12Please respect copyright.PENANATp9cGCqVSF
不管是用手機打字或者用筆寫在紙上,12Please respect copyright.PENANAl3qZ54lXBZ
當事人可能會直接用點頭或搖頭反應,12Please respect copyright.PENANArJS2chzVtU
也可能小聲說話(悄悄話),12Please respect copyright.PENANAJjr3d7r0Lr
當然也可能微笑置之不理。12Please respect copyright.PENANAP48VxW9kwh
不見得會願意用寫的回應(要說/寫的話太多...)12Please respect copyright.PENANA7pISDZGo4K
總之,12Please respect copyright.PENANA9pD1YUpvYz
客人也會心理不安,12Please respect copyright.PENANAwZWFmQPQuT
這跟性別無關,任何性別都有可能被性騷擾。12Please respect copyright.PENANAtd2Rk5q1an
如果Staff有這種小動作,12Please respect copyright.PENANAcO1qcoD7nz
那客人擔心自己也有可能被小動作,12Please respect copyright.PENANAeYYfo6PxQT
這不為過吧...(你說Staff沒小動作還會擔心的,可能才叫做被害妄想症)12Please respect copyright.PENANA6tn4CcIKlE
所以把這樣的擔憂反應給女僕,12Please respect copyright.PENANAWwPVmrgcjL
也許還能將這樣的壓力施加給那個Staff...12Please respect copyright.PENANANp2G2w4ips
畢竟不管哪種性質的店,12Please respect copyright.PENANAdmwTolDd2t
我相信本質都不會是讓客人感覺不舒服。
雖然知道這些分析對於加害者來說都是屁...12Please respect copyright.PENANAeuD8BoMGyw
(會犯的人就是會犯)12Please respect copyright.PENANA0xtIIew0kg
然而當英雄都需要勇氣的,12Please respect copyright.PENANA4gEo1oWaSj
比起只是在心裡想,12Please respect copyright.PENANAFTD1UpdTPC
也許有那麼一天,12Please respect copyright.PENANAqwTfeSFhK2
能夠成為出面英雄(還是叫出手英雄)~12Please respect copyright.PENANA5uvAerBXHF
也希望大家都不會遇到這些不舒服的事情~
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