昨晚Shirley見到我,有以下的對話:494Please respect copyright.PENANATVkw5or0rg
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1) 而家咪幾好囉,開心d。494Please respect copyright.PENANAMauqIRmb2d
2) 第日一齊去下大陸、澳門旅行呀。494Please respect copyright.PENANA9wrcGaI0kc
3) 識騎單車嗎? 第日騎單車叫埋你。494Please respect copyright.PENANAOY1b0qCB6U
4) 好返d未呀?494Please respect copyright.PENANAgTvoWLX4fM
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我有點不厭其煩,只是微笑回答第四條:唔講呢d野。(斷絕她再追問)494Please respect copyright.PENANAy2nmCcxogV
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從她提出的問題中,你也許會批評我:人家只想關心你,為何你如此冷漠拒人於千里呢? 問題不是 she is not my cup of tea. 我討厭她對所有的事情,都以她個人樂觀的信念去宏觀别人的世界,無論你遭遇什麽事情,她也說:我明白。然後是一大堆如何樂觀地面對云云。問題是,她從來不懂自己的問題出在那兒,冗長的勸解不應是24小時提供,沉默、聆聽、身體言語、適當時說話、給予對方空間等,都是接納和關懷對方的表現方式,這才叫同理心。494Please respect copyright.PENANAqnAaEOrvGJ
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盲目地主動,不懂得該在什麼時候停口,還要事事關心不停追問,這和你媽嘮叨你有何分别? 你認為你很關心我,但你有想過我需要你嗎? You are the right person? 你說你懂,你真的懂我嗎? 有句英文是:more is less, less is more.494Please respect copyright.PENANA7pbfXedQZx
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各人頭上一片天,各人的世界也不一樣,學懂尊重人家的感受,比用滔滔口水浸死你來得實際。