「返嚟啦？」江柏琪對加班完回家的我說。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡV4ITh9rlF9
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCWDWKmcFAR
「嗯。」我慣性地輕吻江柏琪一下。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGseMedkjze
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1xNZGumse7
當我進入浴室洗澡，江柏琪便開始炒菜。她端菜時滿身是汗，白皙的臉紅紅，讓我想起小時候，媽媽做著相同的事。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWsK8M6vu5B
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8nYkqAVj1n
弗洛伊德說每個人潛意識的都帶有戀父或戀母情意結，而且所有行為都是沿於內在的性衝動。無論父母好壞，他們將來選擇的另一半，必然擁有父母身上的某些特質。只有那些熟悉的特質讓我們感到安全。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLqM7SldEXs
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPOgdHC3fPZ
最初大多數人會立即否認，說父母與自己的另一半完全不同。可是再想深入一點，共通點是有的，重點在於我們能否察覺自己與父母互動的方式如何影響我們對「愛的表現」的認知。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOGVqlyqVGK
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkbhOmht9Lv
例如有些性格黏人、被家庭過份溺愛的人，若另一半的注意力稍微離開，他們會很容易感到焦慮不安，質疑對方對自己的愛，繼而產生各種不必要的爭執。他們需要交往聯絡比較緊密的情人。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcvBQYGQtOp
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxXkNcQ8aiQ
除了複雜的人際關係外，我人生各方面一直過得很模範，並沒有經歷過什麼大挫折。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7UUmvNRU7O
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGaIsPGxKFJ
我對母親的記憶主要停留在小學至初中的時候。母親每天替我煮飯，對我悉心照顧；關注發生在我身上的大小事，總是有耐性以及理性地和我溝通，相處融洽，互相尊重，我認為這是一種愛的表現。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoT6yxKD4EX
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNxeOeUiZdv
江柏琪與我相處的方式或多或少存在母親的影子。在我交往過的女生裡面，只有江柏琪一個曾為我下廚，而且還煮了七年的飯。同居的當時她不用付我房租，改以煮飯及做家務作回報。每天想吃什麼，到街市買菜，用心煮飯。看似簡單，然而重覆的瑣碎才是令人難以堅持的地方，她超額完成了。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡB5WA8HMNbX
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡENM9VdPeOe
在外，她是一個女強人；在家，她是一個賢淑的小女人。江柏琪性格穩定，對事情的反應我大多預計得到，一切盡在掌握之中，因此和她交往，使我一直很有安全感。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZJyKLMTtJA
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt0A6Alnc21
此刻江柏琪坐在餐桌的另一端，看著我一個人吃飯，自己卻不吃。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcRymUOH6K5
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAaOORhD3QB
「你又唔一齊食？」我問。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbie95GhcJ5
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAx6jizs4SV
「煮完飯個人好熱，無胃口，抖陣先。」她說。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGu0hUp22M4
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡx5E7XTQcHw
我總叫江柏琪先煮好飯，待我回家把食物放進微波爐加熱便好。但她想我能吃熱騰騰的新鮮飯餸，很多時候在我飯快吃光了才開始進食。我們一直都是這樣相處。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1J3CIK58d3
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFybhZimG4H
我品嚐她煮的臘腸炒芥蘭和蜜糖煎雞翼。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRS2fniTJuZ
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPWqPohNKUX
「雞翼煎得好靚。」我真心稱讚，江柏琪的廚藝足以考取一張法國藍帶廚藝證書。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeayXu10PTe
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNjNjhoxqS0
可是我剛剛才在公司吃過鍾美嘉購買的加大雞蛋仔，其實沒有很餓。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ96elNAKakD
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrug5oOqs2J
江柏琪看到我吃飯的速度比平常慢，問我：「無胃口？」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFbt0vlVOEc
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡk2WbWiZG0x
「臨收工食咗個香蕉朱古力雞蛋仔打底，不過我而家都有啲肚餓。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJmeEnpZYf5
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiksRLASLZW
「香蕉朱古力雞蛋仔？乜你會食呢啲嘢㗎咩。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsr29H2IyKL
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8ktW5nJEMJ
「因為係同事買。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdg0gUPViZ7
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡy4yRBkIzJ1
「係囉，我淨係見過你食原味雞蛋仔。」她說。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMO92rk8HU0
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhnLNVE9y1A
「咁南山伯伯明火雞蛋仔十蚊，香蕉朱古力雞蛋仔四十蚊，無乜必要食四十蚊。」我對食物的要求不高，足以飽腹已接受。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡISnRMu9Yws
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡO89lj9evtO
「好彩有我，你先有食神。」因為父母都要外出工作的家庭原因，令她自小開始便煮得一手好菜。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqk99hh7m9J
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0onaxAejdK
「我要求好低，你餓我唔死就OK。」這是真的。她煮什麼，我便吃什麼。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡH5Jdzw1q8q
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3S5OVxNipf
「哈哈，到我日日煮地獄餐，睇吓你仲講唔講得出口！」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrnoPhnHOS1
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYAAIm5dWnR
江柏琪在我的飯餸吃了一半的時候，到廚房盛載白飯，開始進食晚餐。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrjlspq8yWO
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqHJ35jXoRJ
我向她分享鍾美嘉的事：「新請個Part time返咗工，我終於有𡃁啦。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5SW8R73tYL
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhP2MKLuN4s
「咁快請咗人？咩人嚟㗎？」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4QF1i8IV2k
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAbsgyoWmzx
「請咗之前同我做訪問果個師妹，叫Mika。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCuSbZ8co2L
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEwU8WNjIyX
「哦，咁佢表現點呀？」江柏琪吃了一口白飯，語氣平淡，又帶點試探的感覺。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0yb7Q4YalI
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTrb6Nby3zo
「正正常常。飲茶果時Rick俾咗點心紙佢，佢唔知大家嘅飲食習慣，點晒啲中伏嘢，我幫佢改返啱。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfvGvxlL1Vv
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbuY07BfQsn
「你地又衰嘅，俾個伏人地踩。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡymlVSwqT8q
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkXgstD14Cf
「唔係我，係Rick。」我續道：「我同Rick OT到唔知時間，Mika一直唔敢走。到我六點九發現佢仲喺度，先趕佢走，希望第一日返工無嚇親佢。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡex6i35hRj3
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡL5kCmMkVGY
「OT一陣都好閒姐。你應該同佢講，喺香港返得工預咗日日OT，咁到咗正常時間收工果陣佢就會好感恩。你真係太錫啲細路。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡg2G2mjZSG1
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqN07BPbkJd
「我都係大佢幾⋯（七）年姐。好在我係你男友，唔係你下屬。」我說。她自小便是這種女強人性格，除非你被她認可或信任，否則她的性格其實不容易相處。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6792SrX6Lx
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡK9c9h1XOb8
「嘿嘿，男友都可以係下屬。」江柏琪笑說。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhLEk2ew3Ez
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡG72SbwvhxV
「呀老細，今日有咩吩咐？」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTmjJmJHANe
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhzZhleLuaw
「食完飯幫我手洗碗啦。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTLV6Nqd1Uy
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBh71TqBZYq
「講到平時唔係我洗咁。見你我到咁夜咁辛苦，等陣幫你收埋衫。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡz8epTkZcKp
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3INlhhbs37
「唔係幫，係我命令你。」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyDgoRZ8Wyt
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTFm9tFZDSH
「S女？」494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGQ2EMkmME9
494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhAlQdBdEeK
「今晚瞓覺準備定皮鞭，你小心啲。」江柏琪只是口裡說說而己。494Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiSoJ8OBrZZ
Penana
search
Loginarrow_drop_down
Registerarrow_drop_down
