唔捨得係有,唔習慣都係有。咁又點,明明她已離開你,同埋「分手」呢句都係我開口先,憑咩唔捨得、憑咩唔習慣,一切都係自己攞嚟。268Please respect copyright.PENANAAbbus5mvQW
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「人總需要勇敢生存,我還是重新許願,例如學會,承受失戀。」268Please respect copyright.PENANAYzZQJOq1XA
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遠方嘅阿嘈,放唔低我就決定重遊舊地,單人匹馬回流香港刮我出嚟,因為佢好愛我。而我呢,講就好愛喇,但又冇佢咁癲過嚟搵我。當阿嘈搵我嘅時候,我又話自己好愛佢,再相處、再認識嘅時間都冇,就即刻一齊。十幾年冇見嘅光陰入面,大家轉變咗啲咩,唔知,大家心態上改變咗啲咩,唔知。我哋冇嘢知,淨係知道呢刻一齊咗。268Please respect copyright.PENANA4jLSgjjkRJ
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愛,講出嚟係冇用嘅,做啦!268Please respect copyright.PENANAVNVG5j7NZo
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彌補十四年嘅光陰,同時亦都要為阿嘈嘅人生負責,又要兼顧自己嘅事業。我哋已經唔再係天真無邪嘅細路,唔使諗之後嘅將來,淨係享受當刻拍拖嘅快樂;而係我哋都要規劃人生嘅下半部分,要大家有一個好好嘅共識先一齊。268Please respect copyright.PENANA4nYYy5WmKa
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「攞你本passport嚟吖,我要訂機票!」阿嘈急住要我本護照,證明要離港嘅日子唔遠。268Please respect copyright.PENANAUHYW3GAcq8
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「你諗住幾時走啊?我要預時間執嘢,我要去埋我想去嘅地方,見埋我要見嘅人。」生活喺香港二十幾年,好多嘢都好想重新再望多次,望多次香港嘅變化,用自己眼睛更新自己對「家鄉」的認知。268Please respect copyright.PENANA69a3JWlSS4
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可惜時間唔等人,冇半年、冇一年咁長。而係……268Please respect copyright.PENANA64WV6DI4NM
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「就下個月十五號啦!速戰速決,你冇咩要搞,淨係俾passport同少少個人資料我就得,你放心做埋自己嘢就可以㗎喇!」268Please respect copyright.PENANA3iSbS7V2Fo
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一個月,三十日,時間好快就會過,但我想做嘅嘢有好多,要完成我手頭上嘅工作、安排好腎仔啲交接、同媽子道別、同自己嘅事業道別、同腎仔道別。268Please respect copyright.PENANAVj2lrsjSgd
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每一次嘅道別,係嚟迎接下一次嘅相聚,但我都唔知,今次道別之後,下次幾時先有得再相聚。268Please respect copyright.PENANARfjiMrEtXq
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其實「前度超渡師」同客人嘅關係唔係單單係一個金錢與服務嘅地方,好多客人「超渡」完成之後,都會成為朋友,會同我分享最近嘅感情事,亦都有唔少客人成為咗我嘅朋友,會一齊出去食飯。268Please respect copyright.PENANAvn8Pr6k6LD
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「好多謝你,我而家都唔再咁毒男喇,我俾欣欣玩完之後,我學識咗點樣同人相處。」還記得故事嘅第一個個案毒男,當時俾欣欣玩到天旋地轉,以為欣欣好愛佢,但原來唔係。最後經過「超渡」就睇到欣欣對毒男冇真感情,最後佢就改過自身,改變自己心態、改變自己造型,唔再係一個毒男,亦都唔再愛一個唔愛自己嘅人。268Please respect copyright.PENANApBkL6GI12T
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每一個因為前度嘅醜惡而對愛情失望,又或者係太愛前度而放唔低都好,上得嚟呢度,我一定盡我所能解決事主嘅煩惱,呢個係我嘅職責嚟,而成功擺脫前度嘅路程好漫長,最複雜係解決心靈上嘅傷口。268Please respect copyright.PENANAiHuuUlmJjn
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大家成日將心事收收埋埋,任由件事沉澱就覺得最後一定會解決,但咁樣做先係對傷口最差。當你唔去理件事,就會做其他嘢去令到自己分心,同用麻醉藥有咩分別?兩者係可以提供即使麻醉嘅作用,等你當刻可以忘記傷心事,不過當藥效過後都係一樣咁痛,甚或之後會更加痛,因為你已經長時間習慣咗無痛嘅感覺。你可以選擇服用一世嘅止痛藥去忘記痛楚,但你知唔知止痛藥係傷身,仲會有後遺症?長期服用係會影響身體機能,換言之任由件事沉澱都係傷害自己,一日唔直接解決痛楚,呢個傷口一直都喺度。268Please respect copyright.PENANAKPMMmiU4fg
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我知道揭開傷疤,面對自己嘅問題係好痛楚,但唔揭開傷痕又點對症下藥,點樣令到傷口複合?無錯,瘡疤揭露係好痛,冇人想揭開傷疤俾人睇,唯獨修補每一個傷痕先會成長,任由傷痕放置不理,喺度受感染,終究個傷口會越嚟越大,一世都唔會好,自己都唔識逃離confort zone,唔敢面對自己嘅心事一定唔會成長到。268Please respect copyright.PENANANkXxg8iDuw
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修補傷疤,當然要消毒,消毒同復原期間一定會好痛,呢個痛楚或許比放置不理更加痛,一段時間復原後,你唔會再有任何呢個傷口嘅痛楚,亦都唔使舊患復發,亦都唔需要因為傷口而限制自身嘅活動量。268Please respect copyright.PENANA2oNsKE2tm2
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倒返轉去感情嗰邊講,當你對受情傷,對感情有防範嘅時候,截然有一條刺喺度,而呢條刺就係限制你可以做嘅事,因為你放唔低前度,而你就會唔想再搵下一個,自己心情亦都會一落千丈,影響自己嘅人生,同時你唔敢面對前度,你又會選擇做好多嘢忘記,偏偏呢啲都係暫時性,都係徒勞無功,永遠都唔真真正正放低前度。268Please respect copyright.PENANAk3zHQLNWK2
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又或者被上一任玩感情,你心中條刺就係唔敢搵下一個,擔心下一任都係咁樣傷害你,而你就會同一切玩得埋嘅異性保持距離,以免發生感情,唔會再墮落感情嘅輪迴入面。268Please respect copyright.PENANAnojivuyG1J
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只有斬釘切鐵咁止痛,你先可以活動自如,唔需要再因為放唔低、唔需要因為驚對方係玩感情而唔一齊。躺開心扉先係一個對下段戀愛負責嘅行為,繼續收埋自己,只會影響同另一半嘅咁感情。268Please respect copyright.PENANAu52EUt9WGH
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[明明就可以犯錯,漸漸卻掩飾太多。喉嚨內吞了又吐,移走甚麼?]268Please respect copyright.PENANAYAtdLSiNtt
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面對我們成長必經鬥幸福競賽,唔撞板係唔會成長,有邊個一出世就識處理感情事。我唔敢講自己對拍拖好有經驗,我冇資格教人拍拖,因為每個人嘅相處方式都唔同,有啲人鍾意轟轟烈烈嘅戀愛,有啲人鍾意平平實實,總之大家搵到一個同自己夾嘅咪一齊到,每次拍拖就係令自己知道自己係一個咩類型嘅人,發掘自己嘅長處短處。268Please respect copyright.PENANAX9A89pxYWy
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「一些事情,一萬年都不會變。」戀愛課題,從盤古初開到廿二世紀,問題都一直無變。268Please respect copyright.PENANA2cpYfXumzD
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(待續 To be continued)268Please respect copyright.PENANAelQ7LdQU5T
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