第二早，我們又繼續聊。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSPKkgGkC7r
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhvkV2xPBBW
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRhM398MYgz
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWeYEqEthf8
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWO9VoF3CPB
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相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBN4ckHlAoi
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Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3eeKKaFxpq
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiBLIgLT4rG
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqZPZ2wBJDL
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBwHTRKJ48x
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Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWOCLJ49Xzg
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJMWgJaIuGq
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2y5RXNil05
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡL4qBTAsLjt
對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBFihCMY1aE
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyAM5U8BL04
我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZRBpbYF2UV
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvkWFPgRtx6
我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1x47xnZXxN
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFYHEVYLoZf
Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiC6aD16jDX
Annie：不過我不敢苟同601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaX236dIO2E
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6xkUykf9Ty
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡe7Czs1wQ9k
我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPv2IkBO2Wq
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkcvQizf6uc
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAzUQ22jcdq
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1901rGxrcV
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkH1JK4mqWY
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnt8YjAg9et
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPH2NC9AcA1
Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡF1Do0G31lU
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpYau0sjBWz
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwUM3fMUBM8
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡf9D6e8LBH7
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzOZSOJbbPd
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡl2t2qiriQA
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYWSMVDi8k7
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡh3K8fZQy3x
對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡa9UqlQ04I2
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本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡW1DEgI2vNI
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYZsrjwum1M
Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ74nFQXEEOO
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj95Ar1JaQR
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9DOpL9D8pq
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBXIowF1OuY
我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMSPtRVT241
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唉，我都知來不及了。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡN4sI4ATudF
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Annie：下？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrzHSLLORQS
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYaFjqymiy9
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRjFh7yPWby
然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiHESbXH3pp
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡC0sJ6gj0nu
「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBX61yTu5bq
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ40wDPfZ1pN
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPbNzZSN2gk
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSdXAfNjoWA
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡM9f4Hky8QL
突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZSMDsHCcwa
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDgpDy3wwSs
啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0IHapcg4Th
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvZFVlNG9Ou
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwr4Kd1IXmD
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡD6x7PuWsmV
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXdiear7sx0
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我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUpYsuJ5RAf
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTdqeHsmAQb
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMSMxY1yHsN
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbl78fttora
封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrlsB4iqj5h
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDji5qKHO2N
憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt3UrQn0AGB
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtaTRqYg763
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtkub1iJjP0
我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1TNigOXBAx
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtalDOK2Sox
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIsGD5KhVBY
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGYnGebllri
Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqY0sUrFTeI
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuukGyO3rBj
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNsCdPs2Yqj
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgjbNwEkMe9
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXgOgpqJCQq
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeENaODynvj
Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGL40QQKD4s
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡe4dN2sad9b
我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCAFQJAhyaP
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHw1LCeVuiC
Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2uUJIFZAup
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHYhw0IwLTa
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCiSpYS1EN5
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3RufTR03wh
（陰陰嘴笑）601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXT7rh7WaiC
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHVRf3jeqMv
我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDUTVMGYNV6
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡotqQr4wQOA
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwuzdiFBUz4
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXrvwt5cznM
我：屌佢老味！601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmcQEz9NeE0
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnszh0eAgfY
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnrlhG2wiFA
Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVfsfelkm8X
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIhG3BwPvco
我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3MRQIfPXdW
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPZ67dwV9UD
Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCbEvxX05c5
（微笑地說）601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHR3wA0S2Z6
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我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeVk0b6oMRq
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ11ybR7meDA
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzUWKckbEfp
Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIUF20lzU0v
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLCwqQlO3Ib
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpsa5TEhAnk
我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGuNjSdwl6n
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡe5BcoYNOwy
Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlcSjCJUvcH
（暗笑一聲）601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡw1hL1FPxui
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzAUt0zFh5D
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFiwaZV6Nke
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbu9gUmmooK
經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWJ1VSevwBe
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡplF7E7xbrT
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡU6lIa3FJma
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnvAtJuK1l4
事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlGqBpzbqvs
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkIavBAWGNu
先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7eUwfOJAPx
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlg4qbtIvjX
其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4v6mnsqEEu
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwJNSIWibsV
現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrC2C0gslUS
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡO9ILUnKPPh
Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHaCwEeRMJK
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUZdHKLyM3Y
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡX3Dsw9cSa9
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmwUmFW73JB
我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcXOBfPjnlh
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOGfFaAEmLX
再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJ3qMmDM0rj
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJDjLmaDvEI
在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡB8B1dtmFUO
601Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPjoaDHEs1N
好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
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