第二早，我們又繼續聊。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2Q779SPIox
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYDLJCn5blD
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfECcMmPI0a
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQuyCN6SBKw
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0L3TEoI5LQ
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相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡg3aKOB8HPN
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Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXjFC2Cd2Nm
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我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvtulQmMlk8
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡP2FcGXy53z
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Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8Z7NAQG4Jo
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoS4cWuETIF
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcH7e7KBoLC
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對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGC2IqFvBkf
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我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcusZPwTJr8
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我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡw84Wz5OFqz
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Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyB0B9FnFqV
Annie：不過我不敢苟同590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLf9uCzhX70
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQc2ht1ZS4L
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我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9nHTIWTV8Z
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJkBB1ZwYGc
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我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQWq6WPeQQE
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Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAM7qMhwMfs
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Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2J60OQCdKe
590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8hVagqbkAy
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3j8eugBztL
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一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeUCWdE6pEX
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在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUpqZZldTnD
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對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0I2sAB3hdk
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本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIONco6A54w
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Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡohe91OM1fq
590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8QbZ9sOcYR
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBi131DWaDN
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我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡciZ6EL5Vv0
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唉，我都知來不及了。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMbSVz88s9p
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Annie：下？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡd8RV3H9gZs
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXxE6NtdWke
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然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSQi5fYejsc
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「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOjIueq07Zr
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRJjehzBEY6
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLWh0UX40vg
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNCIESF6OKS
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突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqBxDYmHOVC
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啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcowGOz93Gk
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啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ58KlE0MElx
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啊，我做人不用你教！！！！590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFbb9hGH3rR
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我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzvspJ0AnlK
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既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTP7sB1wglk
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封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡe3mQSfp0qb
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憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLLUNgXQmi5
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ92xMQa6qC8
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我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2ohLQbkfz4
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心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTA5Jhbh8p3
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Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnWEjP9C6LX
590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEIWEu8o4ly
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡamMcrQXinx
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我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDL0aVlpZwx
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Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbTvm4YQgWF
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我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡo8HJJ2ZHVh
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Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsp6nmD0S3r
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvo4YdZRDEu
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlkVzGu6uF4
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAg7iD4bTue
（陰陰嘴笑）590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡauUH6xDT3i
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我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡh1tlK2kVYq
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又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt1wqh5r5As
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我：屌佢老味！590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡG8sc4QQITO
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKAcqVR834w
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Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQQOCgs2Nx2
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我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzMQHDB22C1
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Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2MmfT7Wf1K
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我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGdsCXiTr2z
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVdkmtlFtoE
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Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡT1HLxdJyPh
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqX8vX4YMP2
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我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDDdgbt3UBk
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Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡu3efbTVTpS
（暗笑一聲）590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYxUi5UsSww
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDrMhbE8yYk
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqIYIx4LnZg
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經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoscFqSwmjv
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事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ63D6rXLsBV
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事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ64c89rozt1
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先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuFXcKZhGhu
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其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWUTxneb93d
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現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvM6khOgczB
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Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWYMYcaLvKa
590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMr0PRhQATO
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3CRTsHSwnM
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我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡR0iDDelbb4
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再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTeaiacjdhK
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在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。590Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvkV1mbqDjF
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好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
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