我和Ivy聊上了最少三天,期間互相討論動漫、繪畫、打扮。422Please respect copyright.PENANA1O3r1FrNEs
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我:做咩唔著JK出街呀?(😏X3422Please respect copyright.PENANAcZ4Eeq6v7t
我:係咁叫人著你自己又唔著422Please respect copyright.PENANAcfjSOe5e4t
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Ivy:我肥嘛(哭泣X3422Please respect copyright.PENANAGSxFseZlmr
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我:但睇你張相完全唔肥囉,扮曬嘢(😏X5422Please respect copyright.PENANAhZSYaqG2yF
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經過了解,她有163cm、55kg,憑我直覺,一般女生都是這樣。422Please respect copyright.PENANAvPT88jzVGO
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第四天,我又嘗試聊下去。422Please respect copyright.PENANAH8MbWau9L7
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我:今日補習社啲小屁孩有冇激你呀?(笑喊X3422Please respect copyright.PENANAeR4f9r1mwo
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可是不見得她的回覆,是對我冷淡了嗎?還是真的忙呢?422Please respect copyright.PENANAedEmJzac6J
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第五天,剛好2020東京奧運會閉幕,日本以鬼滅之刃主題曲作結,我正想跟Ivy分享。422Please respect copyright.PENANAqWq7FmTORt
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我:正呀,奧運會播鬼滅!!!422Please respect copyright.PENANAXbdFzgDcf4
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跟Ivy的聊天,起初大家看似志趣相投,聊個沒完沒了;現在,她完全對我失去了新鮮感,徹底的已讀不回;再過了一星期,她直接unmatch了我。422Please respect copyright.PENANA4X0HbswACj
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當時跟Susan的聊天也是這樣,明明聊得興起,我還有很多話題還未拋出來聊;結果不出一星期,她便對我失去新鮮感,冷淡下來。也許是因為她同時跟其他男生聊著,所以無法兼顧我吧?422Please respect copyright.PENANAjlDgnWPANm
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交友app這種地方來得快也去得快,一個樣子表面上最少平均中上的女生,是隨時被過百個男生追求,即使match了,我的把妹說話不夠精彩,就很快被淘汰。422Please respect copyright.PENANAW03QBBDb5F
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原本我的想法是:在match之後首先聊天兩星期,用最少兩星期的時間去慢慢建立雙方的好感,才約會見面。太急的話很容易令對方覺得我另有企圖,未能放下戒心而不敢出來見面。422Please respect copyright.PENANA8NB9bzm0HT
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但是現在,這個策略失敗了,看來我真的要另尋方法才行。422Please respect copyright.PENANAkugNnnrjqn
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難怪別人說網上交友難,過急邀約,很容易被人當成另有目的,女生放不下戒心;過慢邀約,在這個男多女少的交友app裡,很快就被其他男生取替了你的機會。422Please respect copyright.PENANAN5cerVpzZ8
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到目前為止我唯一的小得著是,接觸過不少女生後(尤其是Susan同Ivy),至少我已經大概掌握到什麼類型的女生,與自己最合適。422Please respect copyright.PENANApQeNln7Wqd