「你係bi?我係女仔喎。」924Please respect copyright.PENANA8ooOA0R9LP
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談到我給女生的第一印象,如果你認為她們都懷疑我是gay,那就大錯特錯了;其實她們都覺得我是雙性戀。924Please respect copyright.PENANAefzpW1Xg7M
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不知不覺玩交友已經1.5個月,根據我的非精密統計,當女生知道我是偽娘身份後,經常問我的是:你是否雙性戀?924Please respect copyright.PENANAi1y2B3WJ7G
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可能這是因為我又愛女性裝扮,又去找女生聊天,所以才讓她們有這樣的假設;不過無所謂,有誤會澄清就好。924Please respect copyright.PENANAYQGsNlBAk7
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因此,曾經有朋友說我在「扮gay食女」,這種說法是不準確的;與其說我是「扮gay食女」,倒不如說我是「扮bi」924Please respect copyright.PENANAmKK9rcebmD
,什至我連扮「bi」也不是,我只是純粹的「扮女」。924Please respect copyright.PENANAW2q0ymF93D
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也許有人妄想「扮gay食女」,所以我也要澄清,此路不通。924Please respect copyright.PENANAAovBhdFH4O
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以我所知,gay的人通常女人緣都很好,但是這不代表有很大機會交到女生。924Please respect copyright.PENANArZiQDnX3XV
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真正異性戀的女生,你以為她們分不清楚什麼是朋友,什麼是戀人嗎?你以為她們的敏感神經,感受不出同性戀、異性戀的人嗎?924Please respect copyright.PENANA7D8t83m8uR
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而我的情況就是比較怪;儘管有不少女生仍然感受我是直男,但仍有很多女生對我的第一印象是——雙性戀。924Please respect copyright.PENANA0x8rzQCFmi
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有人會問:偽娘能交到女朋友嗎?924Please respect copyright.PENANAAqraHSnpI0
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我只能說見仁見智,難以一概而論。一般來說,偽娘的戀愛市場都是面對雙性戀或泛性戀的女生,或者變性人(不知什麼是泛性戀請自行Google)。924Please respect copyright.PENANAeRu0slqXsd
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至於在異性戀女生裡,偽娘有沒有市場,就真的見仁見智;因為主要視乎以下兩點:924Please respect copyright.PENANAyvsuv7skt3
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首先,你是否扮得美麗?(這個「美麗」,不只是形容你在女裝時候的樣子,亦廣義地包括你在日常男裝時,是否給人型男的形象。)924Please respect copyright.PENANASnzMxdrgUM
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人總是愛美麗的事物,愈美麗才會愈吸引人的目光。在女裝時,當然不能不修邊幅,像周星馳電影裡的茹花就⋯⋯924Please respect copyright.PENANAXEMxLAdnu7
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男裝時亦然,公道地說,你是男神,去到哪都會吸引女生;你是宅男,去到哪都交不到女生。924Please respect copyright.PENANArcRGIeiSTa
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尤其在這個性別議題漸漸思想開放的年代,愈來愈多的偽娘出現,我深知這會使會使得「偽娘」眨值;所以在卸妝後的我,也不忘要成為一個「男神」,繼續增值自己。924Please respect copyright.PENANAk5598YZRcX
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其次,就是視乎你和心儀女生對「偽娘」的定位在哪?924Please respect copyright.PENANAU61hi5RZLd
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所謂定位,就指你是純粹把它當作興趣?還是把它視作你性別認同的一種?以及,女生是否理解和接受你。924Please respect copyright.PENANAtQ10rihbPE
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對絕大部份的異性戀女生來說,通常頂多只接受作為興趣的層面,終歸都希望你能穿男裝,看看你的英俊樣子。924Please respect copyright.PENANAM5XJjqRdcZ
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在Tinder上左滑右滑,一個濃妝艷抹、及肩短髮的女生出現在我眼前。924Please respect copyright.PENANAZptWjjaXMf
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一張奪目的大頭照,不禁使我好奇地按進她的個人檔案;她也是雙性戀,很會化妝,經常以不同的妝容示人,衣服穿得比較中性,但很時尚向藝術化,身上也有紋身。924Please respect copyright.PENANAnaiEAPkhca
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想想我上載的照片,雖然是cosplay,但也是以不同樣子示人,有:本人日常男裝照、宇智波鼬cosplay照、美好世界維茲cosplay照、JK服、一張在我聖誕節時的日常女裝照,和三點式泳裝照。924Please respect copyright.PENANAjQrfow2dDd
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於是,我對她十分有興趣,直接送她一個「super like」。924Please respect copyright.PENANAhaLzhvg0gA