Priscilla：你嚟唔嚟我屋企睇Netflix？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfZA31IUUjz
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慶祝過後，我就決定到Priscilla家暫過一晚。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaOjtLKcEZH
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我：你屋企人會俾我嚟咩？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgAM6lyPRYr
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Priscilla：我屋企人都喺上面，喺香港我冇親人。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRVrryIT6Gd
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了解過後，才知原來她當初是為了工作，才來香港申請永久居民。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUq7QNoyE1h
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最後，我們在麥當勞點了一份二人套餐，就這樣上去Priscilla所租住的地方。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQkg9VWfCsI
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Priscilla所住的房子是一人房，空間和面積如我大學宿舍的二人房，她的房間也蠻整齊的，有陳列架放著她的書、化妝品，床邊也放著一些玩偶，她還懂得用精緻的白色系和綠色系的蕾絲窗簾布，來裝飾自己的房間。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpV6t2pICLT
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Priscilla：你有帶褲來換嗎？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbNLD7mVtEC
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我：當然沒有啊。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhHs6duY6RL
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Priscilla：我這裡有一條大碼的睡褲，應該很適合你穿。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyGxBHWELw9
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我脫下外套，和換上她給的女裝睡褲，便爬上床上和她一起看Netflix上的劇集。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeZWkyNhh3B
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嚴格來說，這條睡褲算不上是女裝，而是一條很中性的睡褲。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyyRBJxJ461
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Priscilla：同你講，格離室友住嘅房仲大過我呢度一倍，但租就只係貴幾百。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡl6z41NL4ZT
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我：你呢度係專租俾女仔住？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsCxuWJPKnm
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Priscilla：係呀。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡs0hcAfdPf7
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我：咁點解你又俾我上嚟嘅？你唔驚我做啲咩㗎咩？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSQkX9YVveT
（我對她微笑地問。）508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡc4pwOXltzr
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Priscilla：就係因為你係偽娘所以先俾你上嚟。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡr3lnoeIBgI
Priscilla：我當你係女仔先俾你上嚟。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡL0edJWvkKi
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她說完，我不心想：難道我已經落入了Friendzone？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFi7gFsqF5O
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Priscilla：你想看甚麼？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKUzWeyWObj
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我：睇下有冇咩日劇先啦。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbESpQTge28
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Priscilla在iPad上滑著，表示她正在使用朋友的帳號，於是她又問我要不要一起開個屬於自己的帳號。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAFcxVxVkuA
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我：不如就開個account啦。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVFyPaE3pFb
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Priscilla：咁我哋就分返每個月嘅台費啦，我出住錢先。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1oFwzDHdDI
Priscilla：密碼你自己定啦。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgmYQQAgr0z
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我：咁⋯⋯密碼就用我個名，同埋今日嘅日期啦！508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5NK2xcDPVQ
我：就叫「watergod20220201」啦。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡN81gRGJG8G
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雖然現今科技發達，有Google會幫人記住自己在任何網站設下的帳戶和密碼；但我心裡還是希望Priscilla會記住我的名字，還有今天的日子。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSDMUPixoTg
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Priscilla：不如就睇呢套啦！508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ11sy0l8Xj7
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於是，她就點進了《勿說是推理》。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlaAYzODnkE
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Priscilla：你唔洗返屋企咩？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6qEyVqZk8v
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我：睇完先再算啦。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxtC5tnyKKK
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我們的身子都是橫向地躺在床上，身子是半坐半躺的，各自地蓋上毛氈；只有把腿子捲起來，才會勉強地把全身放在床上，我和她的距離，已經是肩碰肩。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡn6V3WV3E3B
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看了很久，她自自然然地睡著了，而我也借著自己疲累的身軀，打算順勢地睡在她身上；可是理性又告訴我，用這樣的「肢體接觸」來推進關係，太冒險了，結果我只是往攬枕裡睡著。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCN3sbOLgrH
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-----大年初一的早上-----508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6WLabR3bfV
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我們的早餐，就是去飲茶。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡg2pGqSFArg
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「奶黃包！」侍應有禮地送上了其中一道點心，點心上的每個白臉小包，都印上了一個黃色的笑表情，我有點以為自己在吃Lihkg的頭像。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEP6IBjy4RV
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Priscilla：你會搵男仔定女仔拍拖㗎？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwdFBsCZvZq
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這已經是不知第幾次，被人問上這種問題了。每當我被人這樣問的時候，我總是要思考一會才能回答。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDis4XX9Bl1
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我：搵女仔拍拖就梗㗎啦，但我唔知應唔應該叫自己做無性戀。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWurb6a6FxC
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根據「無性戀」的定義，是指一個人對任何性別的人感受不到，又或者是只感受到很微弱的性吸引力。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡK7iTZjI8vA
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如果直接問我的性取向，就如發問這樣的數學題：0除以0等於多少？0？1？無限？無解？無意義？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjWqxxWiG1k
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對我自己來說，最優先的性傾向就是戀物、其次才是跟女生進行性行為；而且我極少會主動去想像跟女生在床上活動的畫面。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgRlyZcWbTf
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都是那個比喻：我最喜歡吃魚，但不等於抗拒吃豬；平日如果要二選其一的話，我當然選擇吃魚；但如果有人主動請我吃豬的話，我還是會開放地接受吃豬。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgvCSa1Y5I8
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只膚淺地說我是異性戀，不準確；雖然在浪漫的情感上，我也是追求一個女生談戀愛；但在性的層面上，我的最優先傾向是戀物，女生才是其次。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ48ADuIJknF
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說我是無性戀，也不準確；因為我也有戀物的傾向，會看黃色網頁，這已經是一種性生活。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3WOLiXx45L
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我不敢直接向Priscilla說自己是戀物，怕她接受不了。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyN40n9K6D5
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Priscilla：講真，憑我嘅雷達，我又真係感受唔到你身上嘅性吸引力。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡU308lgrI1Z
Priscilla：我又唔覺得你係直，又唔覺得你係gay。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqQl8HzMVYm
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我：你第一次扑野係幾時？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4deon7wRE3
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Priscilla：8年前我喺英國同過一個男仔上床。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBi4P3NB0th
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接著，她說起自己的情史，我才了解到，她有過至少一次的上床經驗，我沒有再詳細過問她在英國時的那段經歷；但估計她和那個洋漢的關係，都是停留在FWB（friends with benefits）的關係。我有這樣的推測，是因為相信，很少人能夠接受異地戀。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡs8m0JWle7J
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又以我和Yuli（Ch.19出現）的關係為例，換著是我或者是Yuli，對於在外地人物的感情處理，很多時候都是「玩過就算」的心態。如果有真正到外地留學或工作的人（又或者是趁著假期回流到香港玩）都知道，常見的例子就是，你到一個像蘭桂坊這樣的地方消遣，運氣好的話隨時能讓你遇到一個心儀的目標跟你上床；但，上床過後是否真的成為了大家常說的男女朋友？有多少人最終真的把「佢」（中文書面語的性別代詞只有「他」和「她」，太二元我不喜歡在此使用。）抱回你的家鄉？又或者「佢」令到你住在異鄉一起生活？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡn6CPsvNOPR
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Priscilla真正認真的關係，是在4年前。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlkW3DEzPvH
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Priscilla：我上一任男朋友係4年前，嗰時係我家人介紹俾我嘅。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEpYDumWYsa
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我：咁拍咗幾耐？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡosPWZaeatt
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Priscilla：都9個月，之後就係因為佢對我用冷暴力，所以分手。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNanVfx0mHL
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當她剛才說到「我又真係感受唔到你身上嘅性吸引力」的時候，我在想：是否她對我沒有feel？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZ7zYHw41n9
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可是當我聽完她的基本情史之後，她那兩段的關係相隔的時間，4年，也有點久，不禁讓我想到另一種可能：她也是不容易投入情感的人嗎？以她的條件，也經常接觸不同的人，要遇上幾百個男生絕對不是問題，要找上一個條件比我好的人，都不是問題，為甚還需要家人的介紹？而且到現在還是沒有男朋友？即使很多香港男生不喜歡大陸人，但如果要為拍拖而拍拖的話，最終也是會找上她呀。真讓人有點摸不透。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ96q0nMXQDp
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Priscilla：你係咪有好多女性朋友㗎？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡc1fPTQwsRA
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我：我冇乜女仔friend㗎。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8oNTrE5eLx
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Priscilla：下？你咁都冇？偽娘唔係應該有好多女性朋友咩？508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfBSR4sv3Df
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我：幼稚園至到小學初期嗰時會，但而家冇曬呢種緣份lu。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAZbz1O7Fhb
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我：講起上次拍拖，都已經係8年前，嗰個女仔係喺Facebook識。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnUnJwMGzZA
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說著，我又說起自己的情史。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUyKmHZm8t9
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8年前的那段關係，又是從網上開始，印象之中是談了兩個星期左右就出門相見。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlCXsIY2xmW
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我：嗰個女仔，又幾主動，我從未試過做主動嗰個，去拖人隻手，係佢拖我手先。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡteXZIHx6d8
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我：然後就係，「拖」「攬」「錫」做齊，只差攪野。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQIaEdr2xH1
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簡單而言，大家的關係就在stage 3（錫）止步。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuPxOkwwzIB
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雖然很多無性戀者對性行為（所謂的Stage 4和5）沒有興趣，但是很多都還是喜歡被牽手（拖）、擁抱（攬）、親吻（錫），享受純愛的感覺。 508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡorehbnEECg
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就連我自己的愛情觀裡，也是相信只有「純愛」，只進行 「拖」「攬」「錫」就夠，再上兩級就不了。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7BsWxM6P5H
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這也是我一直以來仍是「處」的主因。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7WSt09esaW
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我：最後拍左一個月就散。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUM269QLbt3
我：就係因為頂唔順佢太過霸道，脾氣又差，所以先分手。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwox4wkHFGO
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那個時候的我，「偽娘」這個靈魂仍然是深深地封印在自己的心裡，連我自己也幾乎沒有察覺，我可是完全以社會講的男性型象來生活。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj1IACVo4pC
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老實說，即使是現在，我也很討厭女生霸道，這樣我駕馭不了。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡseHc4EFZDx
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Priscilla：我聽講港女係咁㗎。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8kOsjZwAee
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我：係，但你又唔好以偏概全，都唔係一定嘅。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtdk9XqA3Ud
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這頓早茶，以AA制完。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡX2pSxe0aTB
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我送著Priscilla回家，在路上，「肢體接觸」這四個字像一個鋼造的框架，牢牢地鎖在自己的腦海裡，又是那做為做而做的接觸。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡL1kxDDZhXo
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在過馬路時，我眼睛又是瞄著她的手臀，想了一想，好不容易才敢伸手撓下去。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEaqcHnTLea
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我：下次再玩啦！508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQeKDVH62Er
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Priscilla：來一個抱抱吧！508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTC4e5yOQGX
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在Priscilla家的大廳裡，我和她來了一個擁抱道別。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZ0Q5x4P2WW
508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXSHOUfdJst
這個擁抱，只能算是一般社交式的擁抱；因為我很清楚地感受到，她只是來了一秒，然後就抽身離開，彷彿不再讓我擁抱多幾秒。508Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYbmQhf7cK6
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