第二早，我們又繼續聊。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdnPhIaY1I2
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfFteVLfmqc
Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAnMdYMoJVH
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡf2qAFkqtvC
Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt7JzHW9Bi3
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNDpet1X24C
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEAg7Kwh5l0
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ17AIcdHh9i
相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWiUjLkWdV8
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2QmTsmFPpC
Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEPni3d7c8l
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6KfZHGlKwY
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxaebwzuUiV
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsIsWvT5v5A
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNO4AYeDFAo
Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBFmovi51fG
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡO4K3nlv6BO
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTjsqLpazrJ
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgfNKVw9wk5
對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRxy5FMrQ2v
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡn05FOuI9bP
我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaZgTDl84UU
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQvYbDyrYiP
我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡp4X2h3ZNvu
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYQrszGkn1H
Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrujxC0e7zd
Annie：不過我不敢苟同543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvSwZ3kX3BK
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHCRhjQjp0q
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡanm0WrcsLw
我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwoz9vsd5aj
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqDOidXcVFf
Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0IR3yILQuL
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡU1H0alYJ5g
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡo6g4Lu1R9c
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDjwx2VQOWb
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpNKxgwWRTN
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4juPHokB3w
Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkWwaRAwiGU
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5Bck6vYXig
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGIYCBqMtHV
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZkqKE0lTtB
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ35FSV4eWs5
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcsmsxxg6bg
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpbj9LrOKwy
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ62hd4xdkkM
對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡU2EImIJWs5
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0CFWCnjf92
本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡI6hOXaboDw
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡz4TBnX5hNz
Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhtH1r9icl5
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYAXzYFzjjx
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡB1gYPl4CY5
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwttuKh9c2w
我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUhxJNLNeOH
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMmsfHARoSk
唉，我都知來不及了。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1PTo2nycG8
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJOf4YcLtoI
Annie：下？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡx06HlzXOsr
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyy05TgAOlT
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoB1Brj6Yb3
然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBTKYsz8d23
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡL6MtgELVT2
「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZIzPDzo4k7
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3pw8UIp60Z
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ54zkdqBMa9
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHyWS9fDGQh
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgQnmQtsfcC
突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTDIVwSpmdR
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡROMvvkiX0V
啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaIAZNonk5T
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLe3FCqKSb6
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyv6ndxsccG
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡF5xe7Hwyd6
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeX5dZuq8Oh
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9VY8DV7sKX
我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVXgPXo03Ao
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9t1BvVZ1BN
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡy2HJTc4iuF
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡldWmZUwOZX
封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzTvavCFYk8
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdOJAXZmDxn
憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡn4c1Ml8grR
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdPEtb4HPo1
Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9sKpvBmZxU
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMcSm9FHRJE
我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡO7ZHzfBKsa
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDTlnh8XI9z
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡox4qJMblCZ
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnFRMIxIrNf
Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8r3iEX87GV
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2ipAnfFLOm
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUYBRt1yUoz
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAtVVnqz2YL
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfP18ZOBgeg
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4VepQv5Nh3
Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfKIC5kkqrd
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDJ3L6bAsJb
我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJ7xIW6UCow
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3vBLib8HnM
Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9WsDlTwu2Y
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaTLTrou9ub
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7X8semItYy
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKHT9JKyes6
（陰陰嘴笑）543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaeDqaK6gYH
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhxx5Qu5615
我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡp4gtABH2re
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMM9brgshgC
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡR56ryMNSs0
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ84WumAY27z
我：屌佢老味！543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbSdcyqQQ3e
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡs3LT7LCIbY
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdmDhUeeX38
Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdMw4vxom6K
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡH3f7D4VozI
我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJQLPwpbBbu
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi6v5O5iu7Y
Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡePZFhtpvPs
（微笑地說）543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQZyW6f912P
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBGxcGByb3n
我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjLv0X4GwPl
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡynkmUTGtGJ
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡthJtjmZhGu
Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡp22heD17q0
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFdm54Nk9Oh
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt7YApoOAfi
我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtQdbWsOjGX
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡui8wRKsgrD
Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmYzH1gbqr1
（暗笑一聲）543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeeZ8Dk2uzf
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5EzPzg7UQ7
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeFybxsZ66R
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0SmrkPJlCa
經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgyED1pyNJq
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWXXo3MYrSL
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEfpxPqHZdY
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡotoHGshRwP
事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTPOhCrAsd0
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0ueJOJMJPz
先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFSeuTAJ9hM
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUUEKO6yF6Y
其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGkgPs31jeN
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡThQEILKIjQ
現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkfobpaPUBb
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7B8Xw1uzHI
Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfUurbatUSF
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcF8vbX0mqg
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbEea2l48J6
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡonrFMRyirf
我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡecgAI3YzWq
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡz4ztCeVCft
再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0pTrL9OZJj
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0oEEXGKceB
在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡE1yjKWuw3B
543Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡigd0D6LIhf
好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
search
Loginarrow_drop_down
Registerarrow_drop_down
