第二早，我們又繼續聊。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡanBjgmenVT
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrMUA1BV4gS
Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQZDHXhF83A
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8AV0VyxC4C
Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqvBijDGkUb
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSKKz4ghnsJ
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUMAvapLDPs
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaxmiUHkIKx
相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡa1VBnOnzHL
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZjmVayzex5
Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUVGkgCEfRv
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlYOZY5Q309
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcB4ZsQuZZm
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRCIc0IrGfw
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJ9mannTP0w
Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡR8S3G6wMcY
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡm3UZWaPa70
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIiLyYMCCt1
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTiAaR1QxlX
對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPUJ2HhcM1M
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwVAkE7wVta
我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5itVnYkvQM
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡX4eem0GC7p
我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgiU2u58LL2
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOyT2Widkg1
Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0eu4qKIzL1
Annie：不過我不敢苟同620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXUAD68dxEe
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡe8GlYZGUbU
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHa2MWROz3Q
我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqQo2p46G3M
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjbE63pl2aC
Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8m3U0BzoXf
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCTgWxKVQ7N
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRVHRYuh26g
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ70XcWOJvtw
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLlctR7PyFl
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQvCOZsMWus
Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuQQ9icF73T
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡag6LVwx26w
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1ZxNeUQyZq
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8UUOow5CcA
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXEROUjTSTr
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡook6GOy1yR
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡA2KMnuHnAt
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxSG1YM23tr
對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfDslIkSNv7
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvqhKLlYteQ
本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDUo9toM7mX
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFgXNvpCykC
Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOs5MckJEnC
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBDLYcPEFxW
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyfY6gtbQdY
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlu181cr8MZ
我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡarWxmDL39b
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtiMaY9AMd8
唉，我都知來不及了。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBrWH1JBme3
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOwddEVdxeE
Annie：下？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTjEEdlC90c
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4lCmbcbB3x
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuij0mPxgTF
然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgpQkpIJFJ8
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVzaOOD7Ts9
「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqqO1Xbu7nO
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDxzYap6DXX
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9DdPSWalFI
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCIs0SLQhyO
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYoUYqZnZAe
突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIabd0K7PKC
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAtn7o0JbpL
啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPgz0bMains
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡccHVaHmVma
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0kl6x39c8E
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLB9gw0JQdQ
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9CiSjmcgJL
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4gLp2YJgkD
我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi0TAE03Y8C
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcC22QyRo9a
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡboR8I7ve68
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡA93EGwZJaF
封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnHF2opBHqr
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiRwsNVoxAp
憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUMzK9MvKia
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrqIn9DXp2D
Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhBIoJebSPG
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7mNo3UK0Cg
我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpeTGxmWTgK
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzlpxOgoMvW
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9CAvZhl7Td
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdUrmIascQ5
Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNO2HOvzMzW
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡucCdAkaGqh
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡW1pqoY1txK
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOEvP4Efo5w
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZKR9Cm8MrJ
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAEyIukN2r9
Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXxiwdum2Q6
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡE6nGt0Rim5
我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡodgW2SLaTL
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMX7KmANCsG
Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡv0tTdCtzM8
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ24dq0hwX1j
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwfHML1xaFR
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmtzARplZrm
（陰陰嘴笑）620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwtI1ob8N66
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCmwH4dwYRF
我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYPIcldyNTU
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoIXAf6Y6cI
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYvPpvqsMLZ
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRhbJkMp8qZ
我：屌佢老味！620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKIeLiXuNse
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyRnQumVeGV
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6HcO5RR7V1
Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡY6bBu0Deo6
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYfNpU2FR27
我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEfau5KF6Wf
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡG4fk3CM0HC
Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj5xAAhK4pd
（微笑地說）620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡG2oLTvfRkt
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOF6Wfo8o8z
我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3WQ2nhWbuX
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡr2UfEI3BwS
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAFSdUJEava
Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrCg4nkfYYD
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbu7eRAGbvj
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡI3E0LoDGsT
我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQVoL9qfzuV
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZ74DT8KdwH
Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDIjnccgoEv
（暗笑一聲）620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0kDjFxHrpv
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0cNaNKECTI
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzjsnAhFwMr
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAyf5LZOrMJ
經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEhU4BUWw1N
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWvROuIOP5K
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡym8Dde9gFY
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHeVI9DlEzD
事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiYiIvMYucs
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHERgmP3KuS
先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKfxZ98rx43
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdlpvAB1rR8
其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgTEHTympbP
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡomeT6p9a0k
現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKRurbGiDbo
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0agDs5Oat4
Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhDSXGKxUAL
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCYaVqxliKq
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOz0UMtUt5g
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrVqcRIw82f
我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡx6uJjPYhO2
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡA5wUqxRJFF
再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡd2yLEPMRaO
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMosoMBowph
在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYXwG0MVW3f
620Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxu4Fu4tH82
好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
search
Loginarrow_drop_down
Registerarrow_drop_down
