第二早，我們又繼續聊。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFqQCkQMKnx
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAXWELNKEbb
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzHhPtrdU7F
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiMdaop4eIV
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuhgaDToIJF
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相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5Ai0nq4Tlo
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Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWcyef8o1Ui
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡybWeMte5hx
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkcOmGKJA60
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0cJDo3lCwM
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Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCavDkBl0eS
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLZgvrl6s3m
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAohKH2FpE7
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對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSo8SPaszAy
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我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJTTB9tvBiw
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我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBr30WxWmz0
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Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9mdxeQ2v7S
Annie：不過我不敢苟同574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZC3Joc7mSG
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoD74z9jVDH
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我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXu88j2m5ho
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiiwyfZ8Xbf
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我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡM7YnIkBf6P
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZQVxGM2bQE
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKZLqgKahck
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Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwSdWPVR0Eh
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjKx55bfJvZ
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4hyT8eRdNR
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一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdEuflf3Gfj
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在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡx4J4kkg5U6
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對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNOtx718v6w
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本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4aFpwpd2MC
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Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKYILHjnZDb
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdDvtZIjvUw
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJDS0bmaIDb
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我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBKvusHUgEG
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唉，我都知來不及了。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsotH9SQaQ3
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Annie：下？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbHQfni0r6f
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqK5SXwXftr
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然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFZzI5vqOKD
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「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJT7uPmW0dy
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ291q5Wlyz6
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmubTnSLdHA
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9kXDaNUcjf
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突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIx1wq4dBGU
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啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡD87nF49lhs
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi2fDbJbenV
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4GvLfy7DNg
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRAg0OMf1jI
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLZZ4Qm83sH
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我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡM4W4Lq8iMG
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVkZgZ2xxVj
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdcivdrYJ0G
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封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqH8bgZB7lX
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憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvHs3vgaTkG
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡei0yQhX5xs
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我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlPLxUddzCR
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ91DEXxmN8G
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxt2DfXqUc1
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Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIfBrRZ50aW
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我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡETAak4dy35
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyhNmtxbzbk
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBjwFN3TZvB
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Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvpQjLKIOUS
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ90kBbOm2u9
我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjY9tEDWAty
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Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt9NU7n0wVn
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSUYgxYB7BM
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYV2ewnYeuF
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvfrIKeOvpL
（陰陰嘴笑）574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwXz8IvDiqI
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我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡULNrxLGJqG
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRf4MkyBP0d
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYnSFXbCTu6
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我：屌佢老味！574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhvYvKooND7
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡf3ZNvbA9mM
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Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpftouNqQwI
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我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYa9FHWsOsP
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Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡo7RlxvsM2L
（微笑地說）574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3gMZjnzzAM
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我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6bfbajQfq2
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡboodyWbdCt
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Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIPwQrkdSfN
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGpjrY9fXyG
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我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmfdpQFolOo
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Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsW7AhzOLkz
（暗笑一聲）574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIOJfVTjEPV
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhLPNGcsANt
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMAMVvpNnLm
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgw9rWmCiva
經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzaJHEnKCov
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzVDyAn0FRT
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuFzD1sjMVl
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事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZHtJGSfZgi
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先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwg1V3FuTV9
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其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6MaSe8UcLX
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現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNuMp8eJTAr
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Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5C785avhoh
574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdW3q8KH5IE
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIISwidVOCh
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我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡw7MryLyGJf
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再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfWxLAmZemg
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在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。574Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4K3pI8Qu1I
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好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
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